A relationship and of course a marriage takes two people (well unless you have some very liberal ideals) to work. So we’ve decided to split the content of this blog in two as well. I’ll be offering my perspective from the UK and male perspective whilst the girl does the American and female stuff. Hopefully this unusual approach to writing a blog will help those in a similar and stressful situation see how to handle the it and most of all, not feel alone in the process as we did.