I knew that when we started planning the wedding, that it’d be fun, and stressfull and complicated and that the boy and i would learn a lot about eachother and whats important to the two of us.
what i didnt anticipate, was how much i’d learn about myself in the process. part of it came from the barage of ‘why?’s i got from the boy when i rattled off all the stuff i wanted in/for the wedding. when i couldnt really answer his questions with any sort of logic, i realized i was getting sucked under the wedding industrial complex bus and if i didnt back away soon, i’d have bridezilla tiremarks all over my face. (more…)